Kabul odds and ends

As life falls into usual patterns, there seems to be fewer events and observations to write about. Unfortunately, the usual pattern of life in Kabul is not always so pleasant. Within the past week there was work discord, the dramatic UN situation and an earthquake - the second earthquake in one week. And there is the daily waiting game to find out what will happen with the election. But the day-to-day life goes on in its perpetual guesthouse to office rotation.

Interspersed, there are some more enjoyable moments. Last week, I sat down with two of our three female staff while they ate lunch and heard about what it's like to be a woman in Kabul. One had had an arranged marriage - though she was given final say. And she was sure to ask her potential husband if he supported her going to school, working and wearing modern clothes. She was very happy that he did. The other, if I understood correctly, has opted to remain at home unmarried because she wants the freedom to have a job.

Also, on Friday, we received a welcomed break from the tension of Kabul by attending the annual pumpkin carving party hosted by the wildlife conservation society guesthouse. Saturday was one more outing to pick up last minute gifts before I head out on R&R. To say I'm looking forward to it, is a mild understatement. Life is Kabul is inexplicably as complex as it is simple.